Holly Van Hough – By Nature

Holly Van Hough

Understanding women is the key to having a good relationship with women. Once you have a good relationship with women, you will have a better life, and you will also have better sex.

If you want to understand why women are the way they are, you need to be enlightened and the best place to start would be with reading “Mother Nature: Natural Selection & The Female of the Species” by Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, Phd.

Instead of being like most men and finding it difficult to communicate with your female partner, you will start to understand what is really going on. Women are the ones who buy self-help books to understand you and get what they want from you and from life. The one truth that you need to understand about women is that every woman is a would be mother. Hrdy says in “Mother Nature” : “Mothers are flexible, manipulative, opportunists.”

Women will never tell you the entire truth behind why they do the things they do and why they think the things they think. But if you know what is going on, you will no longer be angry with them because you feel like you are being lied to. You will not expect them to give you what they cannot give. This is the only way to have a completely honest relationship with a woman. And once you understand the motivation behind what women do, you will get more sex.

I have read many books. I have spoken to many people, (both women and men), about life and what they want in life. Most of all, I have listened to many women throughout my life. During the 70 years that I have been alive, I have learned that the statement, “Through Truth you will find Beauty” is probably the single most complete and understandable key to living a better life. And behind that statement is the truth that natural selection has forged every aspect of humankind since the days of “Adam and Eve.” I know that I am on the road to Truth, not bull shit.

There is a book on the market that I found searching Amazon.com today, and which I am going to read. “The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature” by Geoffrey Miller, Phd, appears to give credence to what I have been saying all along. There is even a name for the field that I have been studying for so long: Evolutionary Psychology. Publishers Weekly says of this book: “Miller looks at several kinds of sexual selection. “Romantic” behavior like the making of complex art wouldn’t have helped our ancestors find more food or avoid predators. It might, however, have helped display the fitness of proto-men for the proto-women with whom they wanted to mate–and vice versa… Miller provides an articulate and memorable case for the role of sexual selection in determining human behaviors.”

After I have read it, I’ll post what I think of “The Mating Mind” and how much it matches with what I have learned through my own education about Darwinism, sexual selection and how much further it takes me to finding Truth and Beauty.

Come Up to Beauty – Ron

Kara Duhe – Men’s Health

Kara Duhe

Women everywhere understand that “Women’s job is men” LOL. They know all about men and what men want, how men’s minds work, and how to get men to take care of their children. This is all part of the maternal instinct, as Sarah Hardy wrote in her book, “Mother Nature“. In many cases, they even know more about how to keep a man healthy than men know themselves. They get this information from the women’s magazines, on the internet and from listening to their mothers and their grandmothers.

Most men know nothing about women. They don’t try to learn from books, magazines, friends or their fathers. Their father doesn’t know any more about women than his son who is asking the question, so that doesn’t help any way. No wonder men everywhere are complaining that they are not getting enough sex.

Men rarely even know much about themselves. The male body and how to maintain a man’s physical health isn’t the most widely discussed topic in men’s magazines.

Why is a healthy sex life important for a man? Did you know that if you do not empty your prostrate twice a week your risk of getting prostate cancer increases dramatically? This story in WebMD’s News Archive discusses the fact that medical research suggests frequent ejaculation may help protect the prostate. You can read the full report here: http://www.webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20040406/frequent-ejaculation-prostate

They forgot to mention that sperm has an “LDL cholesterol profile”, the bad kind of cholesterol, and when you do not get it out of you body, it goes back into the bloodstream as LDL cholesterol which hardens and clogs you arteries. Happy heart attack! LOL

This means that it is in every man’s best interest to learn to understand women. You must put as much effort into understanding as much as you possibly can about women, as they do into understanding men. Not only will it improve your sex, but you will also improve your health!

Come Up to Beauty – Ron

Faye Valentine: Photo Lesson

Faye Valentine

Photo Lesson: Faye Valentine

This was taken with my Canon 5D, set of 1/80 sec, with the f20 Canon zoom EF 28mm 135mm shot at 53mm ISO 400.

There was no sun today, so I put my 2nd Metz flash outside in the rain with Saran wrap on it, so it would not get wet and synched it with my Metz flash on the camera with the photo synch.

This was another good shoot. Hair and makeup took 35 minutes, time to set up 10 minutes, and time to shoot was 10 min. I had my assistant spray water from my hose on the outside of the window. I used a fan on her hair.

The real work comes in Photoshop. When you are shooting mostly skin tones the digital noise is very apparent on skin. So I use my noise reduction filter to remove some of the noise. I use NIK software for noise reduction and then NIK Color efex pro very judiciously.

Then I retouch the biggest blemishes in Photoshop before I reduce the photo to the size I am going to use. I use my NIK shaping filter. Never ever use too much filtering. It’s better to use less than too much of any of these filters.

Come Up to Beauty – Ron

Kara Duhe – Want Success?

Kara Duhe

What is it you want? An ordinary life or an extraordinary life? The rich and famous live 15% longer than the not rich and famous. The difference between success and no success, is the way you think. Anything is possible if you believe it is.

All of us need to re-think who we are every week. It should be obvious to any thinking person, that there is no happily ever after, there is no retirement, nothing lasts forever. If you don’t get it now as the world economy collapses, you must learn it fast or you will never get it. I’ll bet you believed that buying a house was more secure then renting. There is no security as housing prices drop to 50% and your IRA drops to 50% and your wife and kids want to leave you.

The only thing you ever have is what you can make with your own hands. You can not expect the government or an employer to take care of you for the rest of your life. So start a business and go to work and stop believing society’s romantic notions. Society wants you to believe their lies, so they can find you to pay your bills and pay for your kids and wife. Helen Fisher PHD Anthropologist says, “Romance is what society uses to keep you around ‘til your kids grow up.” And you thought you weren’t paying for sex! LOL. Start a small business and work 14 hour days and love what you are doing. Live for today.

Come Up to Beauty – Ron

Kara Duhe – Spheres and Beauty

Kara Duhe

In the last blog post, I was talking about the mathematics of beauty and that it is quantifiable and measurable.

To all of us living in the 21st Century, Beauty is defined by the shape, symmetry and spatial proportion of the subject. Shapes, particularly spherical and elliptical designs, are the best measure of the human form. With this ability to measure the human body, it becomes very easy to understand the fundamental difference between men and women.

The female anatomy is more spherical than that of the male. This means that the female biology has more structural strength than the male. Pound for pound they are stronger. Ask your dentist who can withstand the most pain? The female body can withstand more G forces than males. In World War II, only men suffered from shell shock.

Males are more susceptible to genetic disorders such as Hemophilia and color blindness, and even left-handedness. In most encounters, I’ve noticed that men are more emotional than women. Women experience less physical and emotional pain than men do. Childbirth would probably kill a man.

Take a long, straight, silky piece of hair. If you examine a cross section of the hair, you will find it is near to being perfectly round.

Take a curly piece of hair and you will find that the cross section is elliptical. An elliptical shape can curve, whereas a round spherical shape cannot. The instability causes the hair to curl; thus, it is unstable.

A similar example would be a drinking straw. When the straw is straight the cross section is a near perfect circle. As you bend the straw, the sections at or near the bend become more elliptical until it becomes so unstable that the straw collapses at the bend, which is the most elliptical and weakest point. Mathematically speaking an ellipse is nothing more than a failed sphere.

As a generalization, the most desired women in the world have long, strong, straight hair. Most of today’s supermodels have long, straight hair.

By understanding how the mathematics of Beauty work, you begin to understand Mother Nature as a whole. Once you understand Mother Nature, you will begin to understand life, and how to have a better life yourself.

Come Up to Beauty – Ron

Misty Anderson – What is beauty?

Misty Anderson

What is beauty and why does everyone want it?

“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. I dislike this statement intensely. On the surface it is true, but the moment this and other cliches are spoken, the conversation stops.

I am an expert as to what beauty is and I tell you now that it is measurable and quantifiable. It is mathematical, and, when you know what beauty is, you can predict the outcome of many relationships, especially long term male-female relationships.

If you want healthy attractive children you need to know how this works. After all, procreation is the driving force behind everything women and men do. I will repeat myself many times, because this is the key to living a better life and having better sex: What is the key to understanding women? All women are would be mothers!

In 1972 Rene Thom, (one of the Worlds leading mathematicians) said in his book “‘Structural Stability and Morphogenesis’, “The masculine sex has a more elliptic nature than the feminine sex: perhaps this can explain why males are more hairy than their mates and are biologically more fragile”. [pg. 99]

As an amateur scientist and a professional artist at the top of my profession, I was immediately struck by Mr. Thom’s profound statement. This idea became my passion and has brought me closer than I would ever have dreamed to an understanding of life.

Shapes, particularly spherical and elliptical designs, are the best measure of the human form. With this ability to measure the human body, it becomes very easy to understand the fundamental difference between men and women.

I realized that what Mr. Thom was saying about male and female organs could just as easily be said about the fundamental shapes of their bodies. Consequently it should be possible to measure the shapes of our cells to ascertain the structural stability of our individual bodies, giving us new insight into our longevity and behavior.

Come Up to Beauty – Ron

Keeping Sex Alive

Nikki Brooks

No I am not Hugh Heffner and as much as you might think that I have sex with the girls I shoot, nothing could be further from the truth. The girls are safe with me, I never try to seduce them, I don’t even touch them. It is important to me that my reputation is impeccable. Because of my reputation, I am able to get the newest and freshest girls, because their agents know that shooting with me is a safe and pleasant introduction into the business. I often hear from new girls that they have heard from other girls that their photo shoots with me were the best shoots they’ve ever had. You would be wise to adopt the same ethics that I do, when you are working with models. You will get top quality models to work with you.

But after 40 years of shooting women, I have learned to understand women. When I talk about sex and what you need to know to have better sex, it is not from the fact that I have taken advantage of any of the women that pose for my camera. It is because I listen and learn from the women that are before my camera and from my own experiences in my personal life.

Most people do not understand that everything in nature is either growing or dying. This is particularly true with sex. Both parties must be working on experimenting and prolonging the sexual karma that you have. I will show you how to do this, so that 10 years and several children from now, your sex will be better than ever. Think of sex as a declining resource; if you do not renew it constantly it will quickly disappear.

Come Up to Beauty – Ron

Kara Duhe – Photo Lesson

Kara Duhe

A simple setup; one beautiful girl, with a beautiful soul. This was taken with a Metz flash on the Canon 5D camera ISO 400. I used a 1/200sec f18 setting, with the Canon Zoom lens ED 28mm – 135mm shot at 70mm.

Then your only job is to get a one in a million smile from Kara. It lights up my life when I can get her to smile like this.

Come Up To Beauty – Ron

Faye Valentine – Look Around!

Look around you at your family and friends. If you see only happy people, you do not need this philosophy of living site. If, on the other hand, you see unhappy people, drinking or drugging themselves to sleep every night, who have given up on achieving happiness, whose life is over, then you need this. If you listen carefully and work hard, you will get everything you ever wanted or need.

I have everything I ever wanted and I am very happy. I use no drugs. I hurt no one. I abuse no one. I try to improve the life of everyone that is close to me. To be my friend or partner guarantees that your life will get better and you will get the things you want without lying, cheating, or stealing. No one will get hurt and you will get just about everything you want.

Impossible, you say? You may be right. If you think you cannot achieve what I have, then you cannot achieve it. Henry Ford, the founder of Ford Motor Company, said, “There are two kinds of people, those who think they can and those who think they cannot. And they are both right”. LOL

I am 70 years old, I am healthy, wealthy, and strong. I am also having the best sex of my entire life (most men my age cannot get it up). I am doing what I love best, photographing beautiful young girls for my Internet sites and taking nude photography to a whole new level. Not a re-hash of photos that have been done since cameras were invented in the 1850s, but a new way of looking at the beauty of mother nature, that empowers you with an understanding of how she works.

You do not need to be a scientist or mathematician to understand how everything works, but you must have a curious and open mind. I will show you what makes women stronger than men and what shapes of women’s bodies turn men and women on. This site is devoted to helping men understand who and what women are, (would be mothers). Along the way you will understand who you are. If you want the scientific, anthropological explanation, then go to Amazon.com and buy “Mother Nature” by Sara Blaffer Hardy, Ph.D. This is a profound book that is being used in many institutes of higher learning around the world.

Come Up To Beauty – Ron

Kara Duhe – What Women Want

Kara Duhe

Why are women always unhappy?

When I was a young man, I overheard a conversation about “What Women Want”. It ended with the conclusion, “Women want a baby and an asshole to pay for it all”.

After thinking about this for 50 years, I have come to the same conclusion. But it is not enough to know the answer to the question “What Women Want”, what’s more important is to discover why this is true.

As a fashion photographer for most of my life, I did at least 3,000 makeover photo sessions for women’s magazines such as Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Elle and Vogue. I learned that women read women’s fashion magazines to compare their bodies to the supermodels. Women want to see what the supermodels have that they do not have, and why the supermodels get the most desirable men. ie: Money, Power and Looks.

An attractive woman can get the kind of man she wants, but the less attractive a woman is, the less likely it is that she is going to get her ideal man. Women have two criteria when looking for a man. One, a man must have a job or have the knowledge and drive to get one. And, two, he must have a body that compliments hers, so that her baby will not have the same unattractive features that she thinks she has.

Short, fat women always want tall, thin men if they have the attractiveness or money, (although women hate paying for sex), to get their ideal man. A woman who does not like her big, disproportionate nose seeks a man with a small, perfectly proportioned nose, and so on. However, if the man is prettier than the woman, the woman has no power over him. Most smart women know they must have sexual power over their man. The man may be paying the bills, but in America women are the CEOs of the family.

Since women must make up their mind on who would provide them with the most beautiful children before they are thirty-five, they have a limited time frame in which to get what they need. Granted, women can have babies after thirty-five, but the likelihood of the baby having defective genes is much greater after thirty-five. Ten percent of an eighteen year old woman’s genes are defective, and this rises to ninety percent defective genes after a woman reaches thirty-five. The more a woman smokes and drinks, the faster her genes deteriorate. This is also true of a man’s sperm as you get older, but the time frame for a man is longer, sometimes into their seventies.

Since most women are not supermodels, they realize early on that their choices are limited. The more unattractive, obese and old they are, the less likely they will get what they want. It is similar to guys who are not great looking and have no money. They are going to have to settle for less than they desire.

So let’s look at why women are always unhappy. (I think that this can be said with some degree of truth, since most anti-depressant drugs are sold to women). Every year in a woman’s life makes her look older and more unattractive, so every year, when they leave the house (and check their ass in the mirror), they realize time is running out on them. The cosmetic industry is one of the biggest in the world. Most skin products promise to remove wrinkles and make women look younger. This is completely understandable, when taken into account that almost every year women become less desirable. Men also begin to look older and, subsequently, have a more difficult time getting women. But men tend to make more money as they get older, and women need money to take care of their children.

The latest statistics from genetic testing show that fifteen percent of the fathers that are listed on a birth certificate are not the actual fathers. (FYI – women who cheat on
their mates are most likely to do it during the final week before their period, when they are most likely to get pregnant).

Now what do women want? Erase from your mind that being a great lover with a big dick is what women want. Most women prefer their vibrator and close their eyes when they are coming. (Men never close there eyes when they are coming.) If you are not independently wealthy already, you will have to have a job, or the ability and determination to get one. And you will have to offer a woman your good genes that will give her beautiful children.

If you are a man and looking for a women to take care of you “like your mother did”, then you are probably going to be disappointed. Women love their children before you. In a woman’s priority list, first she takes care of herself, then her children, and then you, if you are lucky. If you have not provided for her in the way she expected to be taken care of and have not been the perfect husband, then you will move further down the pecking order of a woman’s dance card.

Come Up To Beauty – Ron